Somatic & Clinical Tool

Disconnected: The Grounding & Dissociation Guide

Identify somatic sensations, explore Polyvagal nervous system states, configure EMDR resource anchors, and download the clinical infographic sheet.

Developed by Rachel Dean, MA, LPC-Associate under the supervision of Samara Orr, MA, LPC-S

Explore Experienced Sensations
Step 1 โ€ข Somatic Overview

Possible Dissociative Sensations & Somatic Markers

Common physical and emotional markers experienced during periods of trauma-induced stress, shutdown, or structural dissociation:

๐Ÿ‘ค Depersonalization (out of body)
๐ŸŽง Tunnel vision / muffled audio
๐ŸงŠ Emotional numbness / autopilot
โณ Time skipping / lost time
๐Ÿชถ Floating or heavy limbs
๐Ÿ™๏ธ Derealization (environment fake)
๐Ÿซ™ Feeling hollow inside
๐Ÿ›‘ Muted hunger or pain signals
Step 2 โ€ข Neurobiological Realities

Mental Health Conditions & Clinical Prevalence

Dissociation is a biological survival adaptation to overwhelming stress, trauma, or developmental invalidation.

75% Trauma Survivors

Experience depersonalization/derealization following major trauma.

80-90% CPTSD & Childhood Abuse

Of individuals with Complex PTSD report chronic dissociative detachment.

73% BPD Identity Diffusion

Of individuals with BPD report stress-induced dissociative episodes.

Step 3 โ€ข Autonomic Hierarchy

The Polyvagal Nervous System Map

Stephen Porgesโ€™ Polyvagal Theory shows how our nervous system shifts into immobilization when fight-or-flight fails.

๐Ÿข Dorsal Vagal Shutdown (Freeze & Dissociation)

Mechanism: Emergency brake activation. Lowers heart rate, depresses metabolism, and releases endogenous opioids to numb physical and emotional pain.

โšก Sympathetic Mobilization (Fight, Flight & Fawn)

Mechanism: High arousal. Adrenaline spike, hyper-vigilance, racing heart, anxiety, or frantic appeasement (fawning).

๐ŸŒฑ Ventral Vagal Social Engagement (Safe & Connected)

Mechanism: Parasympathetic regulation. Feeling grounded, capable of self-reflection, present, and safe in connection.

Step 4 โ€ข Resourcing & Stabilization

EMDR Preparation: Safe Place & Resource Container Options

Explore preferred Safe Place settings and Container designs used to configure EMDR resourcing anchors during therapy.

๐Ÿ–๏ธ Safe / Calm Place Settings:

๐ŸŒฒ Quiet Forest Cool breeze, pine trees
๐Ÿ–๏ธ Sunlit Beach Warm sand, gentle waves
๐Ÿ›‹๏ธ Cozy Sanctuary Fireplace, soft cushions
โ›ฐ๏ธ Mountain Meadow Open sky, wildflowers
โœจ Self-Described Custom inner sanctuary

๐Ÿ“ฆ Safety Container Designs:

๐Ÿ” Iron Safe Digital keypad lock
๐Ÿงฐ Wooden Chest Solid oak & brass padlock
๐Ÿ›๏ธ Titanium Vault Biometric seal
๐Ÿชจ Granite Vault Heavy stone door
๐Ÿ”ฎ Custom Vessel Self-described design
Step 5 โ€ข Evidence-Based Interventions

Grounding Exercises & Somatic Techniques

Essential somatic strategies used to interrupt shutdown and re-engage the Window of Tolerance:

๐Ÿ‘๏ธ 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding 5 seen, 4 felt, 3 heard, 2 smelled, 1 tasted
๐Ÿซ Paced Breathing Long exhales activate vagal parasympathetic braking
๐Ÿฆถ Foot Weighting Press feet down to locate physical body gravity
๐Ÿง˜ ACT Defusion Observe fog as a passing cloud, not a command
Essential Literature

Reading Resources

Top-rated literature offering foundational insights into trauma, nervous system regulation, structural dissociation, and parts work.

Neurobiology of Trauma

The Body Keeps the Score

by Bessel van der Kolk, MD

Demonstrates how trauma rewires the autonomic nervous system. Essential for understanding why "talk therapy alone" cannot fix body-based panic or dissociation.

Structural Dissociation

Healing Fragmented Selves

by Janina Fisher, PhD

Explores structural dissociation. Helps clients understand dissociative detachment and "parts" as compassionate internal protectors rather than defects.

CPTSD & Fawn Response

Complex PTSD: Surviving to Thriving

by Pete Walker, MFT

The definitive guide on Complex PTSD. Unpacks emotional flashbacks, inner critic recovery, and recovering from the people-pleasing Fawn response.

Internal Family Systems

No Bad Parts

by Richard C. Schwartz, PhD

Introduces IFS parts work in an accessible way. Teaches how to access core Self to heal wounded exiles and protective parts.

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Rachel Dean, MA, LPC-Associate under the supervision of Samara Orr, MA, LPC-S
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Somatic Dissociation & Grounding Infographic

Clinical Resource Summary Sheet

Happy Bee Therapy Inc.
Houston, TX

1. Polyvagal Nervous System Hierarchy

๐Ÿข Dorsal Vagal Shutdown: Emergency freeze, metabolic slowdown, physical/emotional numbness.

โšก Sympathetic Mobilization: High adrenaline, fight/flight, hyper-vigilance, appeasement (fawning).

๐ŸŒฑ Ventral Vagal Engagement: Parasympathetic safety, grounding, self-reflection, safe connection.

2. EMDR Resourcing Anchors & Grounding

๐Ÿ–๏ธ Safe / Calm Place Anchors: Quiet Forest Trail, Sunlit Beach, Cozy Sanctuary, Mountain Meadow, or Self-Described Place.

๐Ÿ“ฆ Container Designs: Heavy Iron Safe, Wooden Chest, Titanium Vault, Granite Vault, or Custom Vessel.

๐Ÿ‘๏ธ 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory Grounding: Name 5 things seen, 4 felt, 3 heard, 2 smelled, 1 tasted.

3. Reading Resources

Rachel Dean, MA, LPC-Associate under the supervision of Samara Orr, MA, LPC-S
Happy Bee Therapy Incorporated โ€ข 440 Louisiana St, Suite 900, Houston, TX 77002 โ€ข (832) 979-1588